How a mother would choose her boyfriend over her very own daughter. To build up the courage to tell your mother that her boyfriend has done something inappropriate to you is difficult to do when you and your mother have that best friend relationship. And to know that her boyfriend means everything to her. But it’s a shame; for her to just push the problem aside and act like everything is okay, let him say shit, and curse you out when you’re not in the room. And it’s sad that she would twist up the story about the hate relationship you and her boyfriend have if any of your siblings were to ask. A mother is suppose to defend and protect her daughter. Not leave her to fend for her herself.
Understand that she won’t open up to you right away. It takes time for her to trust you, but when she finally does confide to you she’s letting herself become vulnerable, she’s taking a risk which could hurt her or help her, so don’t take her openness towards you as a means to use her, she…
Like, if a girl is trying to hit on them, they’d be like “oh well my girlfriend..” etcetc :) It shows that he knows how to keep the ladies off his dick and how to keep his girl reassured. That’s just adorable.
I’m not one of those girls that gets all the attention. The perfect body, the perfect smile, the cute voice. I’m not one of those girls that are good at hiding their flaws, the ones that are good at sweet talks and flirting. I’m not one of those girls that has the nice style and the nice looks. I’m one the girl that tend to be really insecure about themselves. The girl that’s always in the corner hiding, I’m the girl that’s scared to show other’s her real self.